Girl Code

There are some unwritten solidified girl's code and I'm going to talk about the main one.

The first one is the Girl Code Section 1(1) which states that on no condition, with or without your notice should your friend date your boyfriend.

Now this code is one that shouldn't be argued. It's straight to the point, na your boyfriend so make your friends stay clear. It's not a friendly polygamous relationship. Although we still get some girls that break this law and most of the time it results in huge penalties such as swollen eyes and acid burnt skin. Girls beware just abide by the above law of Girl hood and you and your besti would be fine.

The 2nd law in the Girl's constitution which is presently under review is;

Girl Code Section 1(2) which states that a girl's friend cannot date her ex-boyfriend.

Normally, this code has somehow been at the back of every girl's head. Not like your friend would kill you if you date her ex but we just feel it's a line not to be crossed.

By the power vested in me by myself as the Omote Kpako 1 of Warri; I, WAG the kpokish 1 has decided to take this code under review because of my friend DarkDiva.

DarkDiva has been pulling some stunts lately. She has been match making her friends with her exes. She is the first girl I know that openly says, she doesn't mind if her friend dates her ex. If it works out for them she would be happy, inshort one of her ex and friend have gotten married. Darkdiva was present wella in the wedding and even gave the toast.

Girls, what do you think? Should this unspoken code be reviewed.
WOULD YOU BE OK WITH YOUR FRIEND DATING YOUR EX?

I used "would you be ok" and not "would you allow" which I wanted to use initially but I changed my mind because if they mean to date, plus you minus you they would still date. The only thing is you would be distant from your friend.

So what do you ladies think. Is it ok for your friend to date your ex? And how would you feel?

INFO OF THE DAY: Uncoupling Theory
In 1976, sociologist Diane Vaughan proposed an "uncoupling theory," where there exists a "turning point" in the dynamics of relationship breakup - 'a precise moment when they "knew the relationship was over," when "everything went dead inside"' - followed by a transition period in which one partner unconsciously knows the relationship is going to end, but holds on to it for an extended period, even for years.

Never knew there was a theory like this until today. It is good to know that nor be only physics, chemistry and biology get theories, relationship get theory too.

Stay Sharp,
Warri Girl.

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