A matured acquaintance of mine said, "there is an element of jealousy in every person". A good friend is one who is able to over come this feeling and change it to happiness."
She said you can be jealous of your friend in a good way. When you wish for what your friend has but you are happy she has it.
A bad jealous feeling is when you wish for what your friend has and you are so angry that she has it, so you try everything in your power to make sure she loses it.
My acquaintance always says this; "I'm jealous but happy for you". At first, I raised my eyebrows anytime she said that.
Yes o! I dey fear because some people na real enemy of progress. Their jealousy fit bring about your down fall.
So one day, I opened my mouth and asked her well, "Shooo, what's up with you and this your being "jealous but happy for me".
Naim she reply: "No WAG, nor reason am like that ooo! Na good jealousy, nor be bad one".
So she explained the difference for me between good and bad jealousy.
WAG readers, what do you think?
The principle of 'two side to every coin', does it apply here?
Is there really such a thing as good jealously and bad jealousy?
Is jealousy not jealousy?
Me sha, as a sharp Warri Girl, I dey use sense take follow the babe.
INFO OF THE DAY: Socialization Factors on Jealousy
Factors of socialization can influence how partners react to jealousy in romantic relationships. Women may experience less severe jealousy when a male partner is unfaithful, because many women have been socialized to believe that men don't attach emotional importance to sexual intercourse.
Jealousy, the Green-Eyed Monster. It's best to keep off its path.
Stay Sharp,
Warri Girl.
Info source: topics.wisegeek.org
8 comments:
Yr frnd is ryte WAG..... U shud kip her close... a lot of pple r jealous..but wud rather gossip n backstab...she tellin u dat she's jealous bt hapi is just her being real....most pple r just freaking pretenders...besides d fre-nemy u knw is better dan d friend u do not knw(my personal addition to d world's bible of wisdom)...
Nice point but the truth is dey nor dey know finish with human beings. Wisdom is needed, thats why I said I dey follow the babe with sense.
The bible says wisdom is profitable to direct. My dear friend everybody is jealous even God said 'I am a jealous God'. Meaning if we re created in his image and likeness like Guiness Aurthur said there is a drop of greatness in every man,meaning there is a drop of jealousy in every man created by God. I ve not heard or read from anywher dat there's good and bad jealousy expect 2day reading it from ur blog. A jealousy person is a jealousy person nothing lik good or bad jealousy,tell ur friend not to say she's jealous she should just be happy 4 u daz all. Its even better knw d devil around u dan to fill ur good friend is an angel while dey re d 1 killing u. Xoxo
Truth Is there is an element of jealousy in everyone and sometimes some people do not recognize d fact dat they re jealous hence they are pushed to do something evil, often times I have caught my self in d act of jealousy then I turn it into happiness.
Yes I understand that the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. But the fact of, the green-eyed monster, jealousy whether good or bad coming into play just makes someone want to be extra careful.
Hmmmmm, ok. So Good jealousy it is.
I enjoyed the info of the day.
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