I received this from a female WAG reader. She is in a predicament and needs our advice. I'm going to share her mail with you guys, its quite lengthy sha but read through so you can help her out.
The mail;
Please I need your candid advice.
I nor know who send me message o but I think I am already in some deep shit. Help when I help naim put me for this soup when I no cook. I had known my boss to like young smart guys but never thought she would be playing the same game to my territory...
My relationship has lasted for more than 5years and is heading to marriage as we speak. Even if its been one sided with me handling most of the financial aspect, I still can't imagine me without my boo. Paying most of the financial aspect doesn't mean all ooo! Abeg, make una no get me wrong. He is soooo cute and intelligent. A dream most ladies would have for a perfect man.*wink*
I closed from the office one day and as usual he would be picking me up in few minutes. Coincidentally, my boss' driver called and told her that her car just broke down so I offered to help drop her over at her house since my man lives in the same area with her.
I heard his car horn, so we walked outside. With our usual welcome kiss, he opened the door for me and my boss too. I started the formal introduction as courtesy demands but the smiles and spark on my bosses eyes were just confusing...hmmm.
"Well, just ignore" my mind told me. Again she complimented my man's car as being 'sleek' and 'beautiful'...Oh my word! Whats bringing all this kind of love terms into this now?! Gist brought gist and she found out my man could handle a building project which she didn't have time for. In the spirit of good business they exchanged business cards..
"Ok baby, you're home now." My boo said. We were already at my gate. I got my usual goodbye kiss and left him all to my boss to finish up their journey.
"Take care of yourself Jenny. See you at the office tomorrow. Make sure you finish up that Grant chart tonight." My boss said to me.
"Ok handsome, we can go now." I heard her saying that to my man. Guys at this point, I felt like melting. Its not like I am getting unnecessarily jealous or that I don't trust my man, but truth be told, my boss is just 42, single, classy, rich and much more beautiful than I am.
Just few minutes after he left, his number was no longer connecting and my boss was not picking all her lines! Hmmmmmm... Na wa oo. Yes I can pretend that I was just calling to check up on him but the truth was that I was scared to death and regretted leaving both together. I am already feeling fucked up...
There was an sms alert on my bb; see as I rushed just to read a text message. Thank God it was from my man. He just wanted to let me know he was home and had a flat battery and couldn't charge his phone in his car because his car charger was bad. "No wahala my love" I responded.
Guys, we never even talk go anywhere, he has complimented my boss as being "a very nice lady.."
OMG! A lot of neutrons hit my brain like a billiard ball experiment in one second. A lot ran through my mind and I found myself shaking. God! Whats happening? What must they have discussed about that he likes her now? A lot of questions I was asking myself. I felt cold inside like I just lost something. I don't know, but I was getting just too uncomfortable.
I could feel my boo's excitement. "We have finally made it big baby!" He said.
I was like, "Big? How?"
"Yes baby, yes! Your boss gave me the construction contract of her two houses at Jeddo and a 50km road contract. She promised to give me more work if I could impress."
Guys, here is the problem; she asked my man for a secret date. He was not suppose to tell me this but he did. What do I do? What do we do? These contracts are worth more than 10Million Naira!!!
INFO OF THE DAY: Beauty Bias.
Studies show that physically attractive people tend to have better paying jobs in higher level positions than do their less attractive counterparts. This preference is collectively referred to as "beauty bias."
From studies, you can note that most female bosses are usually very attractive. So before Jenny decided to ask for help, you go know say the matter don pass be careful.
WAG readers, help her by dropping your thoughts and suggestions in the comment section.
Stay Sharp,
Warri Girl.
Info source: Random Facts
22 comments:
Pray and fast, or rather carry am go altar sharply
Liv d guy to fire ur boss joor,he wld make enuuff moni fur ur wedding and after wards...go into agreement use condoms,if u get angry e go still fuck d woman n not tell u so don't worry ur self abrrit ok.always b open tu any conversation concerning her its better dat way
Does she think he'l leave her for a 42 year old woman no matter how beautiful????
Ahn ahn.....
Na girls dey do dat kinda tin not guys,no offense
*Clears throat* old single ladies are usually lonely and seek companion from younger males. At this point where he"her bf" is trying to make ends meet, he wudnt reject the offer, but I'll suggest he holds his head high not to make it seem the lady"boss" has done him a big favour, so if she's trying to go deeper than secret dates, to bed meeting, he can strongly stand against it. I only hope he's honest to the end telling his girl every discussion, if not I see trouble. So my advice is, let him involve his lady in everything, & make it obvious to her boss dat he discusses with her. And she shudnt show weakness in this, lest her boss starts treating her bad n b4 she knws it, she's out on d streets jobless, and evn her man wud be busy with his contract and boss's old pu**y
What is urs will definitely be urs...just leave everything in God's hands. What you don't know won't kill you. And I will advise her not to go into competition with her boss...she should still be her normal self...what her boo saw in her will always keep him around if dey are meant to be together...plz I need a girl to love me like dis...wag am available na u knw na..esq speaking
Na mouth dem take dey marry, she can't just carry the guy to altar like that na. The guy himself need to stand on his feet financially.
You commented wisely, most importantly she shouldn't allow this affect her working relationship with the boss, so she doesn't lose her job.
This advice requires a strong heart made of kpomor. If Jenny goes with this, she should make sure her boyfriend is open to her about the dealings between him and the boss.
Ds story b like movie sha bt problem dn dey already.d guy wl nt marry d 42yr old bt he wl kip screwing her fr God knws hw long.listen to urself vry well,u sd u handle most of d financial aspect of d relatnshp,so now he nids d job to b able to rise up to his responsibility.so na now u go love am pass or else if u vex e go use d cash tk find anoda correct young babe.get sense ooOooo.
Nice reply to Jenny. But as for your request for a girl to love, am I a matchmaker? This one when you dey say I know so. I nor know ooo, all I know is that there are many babes in the city, find one to toast,lol.
Lol @ na girls dey do dat kind tin. Guys do it too o, some guys don't mind a lady's age, what they are after is the Benjamins.
Lol, sharp guy talking. I have actually heard stories of guys who make cool cash through their girlfriends then cash other girls with the cash.
It doesn't mean he'l leave his gf,in this case,He won't...tho I c it causing issues btwn her&her boss
if care isn't taken
Wag I nor fit go apply for girls for street na...I dey tell u say I need u...u dey tell me of street...na wa to u oh...abi make I go for ur boss? Cos I don't mind d age oh
What are u saying? Plss speak 4 ur self not all guys Ѱȋ̝̊̅̄ℓℓ be like u if 4 real u claim u can't leave ur gf 4 a 42yrs old lady cos majority of guys out dere would.
Old single ladies d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ are always desperate and at d same time daibolic.so my advice to u is dat u shd be ur self jst let d relationship between u and ur boss remain d same and also av it at d back of ur mind dat 4 ur boo to tell u abt d whole stuff he appreciate u but also anythg can still happen.But the major thg is to put everythg in Gods hand if he's urs he Ѱȋ̝̊̅̄ℓℓ be urs forever and no one not even the 42yrs old madam Ѱȋ̝̊̅̄ℓℓ take him away frm u but if he's not God Ѱȋ̝̊̅̄ℓℓ bring a better man ur way.Be prayerful its only God dat can solve this challenge.
My advice is simple talk to ur BF and let him choose u or the job, trust me u cannot eat ur cake and have it, If he takes the job something will definetly happen btw the both of the so just avoid problems by dropping the contract
Nice point.
Eyaa @ sisi. If she try am, the guy go vex o. Na money matter we dey talk hear so o. Inshort the guy self too love. If he didn't tell his woman abt her boss' intended secret affair, she wouldn't have been in this heart ache mess.
If I wld advice...., I don't even ve any advice right now...hmmm its a tricky one. Jenny, play the tape the other way round. If you wre in his shoe, wat wld u have done? Let the million naira contract sleep away or offend the boss who might end up sacking ur boo?
Ighxo
Interesting piece..as per my advice,everybody don talk wetin i wan talk so i go jst add say ,in this kind of situation,trust matters,let Jenny trust her man not τ̅☺ betray her cos she fit by herself destroy herself and the guy shld always carry her along but she shldntt b too pushy about it .kpakam
hmmmm dis is serious, come to tink of it wat will happen will happen no matter wat u do jenny, just try and be wise on dis, no man is an island of his own,if u take up a fight wit ur boss u'll loose ur job and maybe loose ur boo,so just act wise and remain calm on dis issue treat ur boo wit so much love dat he'll always preach ur love even in d ears of ur boss,but in all pray dat ur boss dont use charm on ur boo. 1 last tin dont sing ur boo's praises in front of ur boss or else u'll ur job.
Its beta 4 d guy to run as madam aint gonna stop knacking him. As per GF she has lost her dude to Cash shikena!! Plus she will lose her job too... also dude needs job but na sacrifice, if he tries dat woman, His relationship is gone.. God will bless u later even if u refuse her advances.
Its an indecent proposal
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