This is the way the hookup usually starts,
I use one of my female friends as my display picture and a guy pings to say "your friend is beautiful".
I reply "Thanks".
The next thing you know, the guy says "hook me up".
I hate to see that line "hook me up".
Sometimes, I would start asking my self, "who send me make I use fine girl picture as my dp?"
The way guys disturb na die. One of my guy actually said I was a wicked friend because I refused to hook him up.
E nor go understand. Hooking up dey give person serious headache.
First of all, when I tell the girl that one guy wants her pin, she would want me to do a long autobiography of the guy.
I have told my guys, if you see me physically with a female friend, toast her yourself, don't expect me to run an autobiography of "the guy is single, looking for a wife....blah, blah, blah.
One thing I have noticed about hooking up people is that when the relationship is going smooth, you are totally forgotten(which I don't mind because I don't want to be inside anybody's relationship).
But when the relationship is going south, you are resurrected with the assumption that you as the arranger or hookup-er(the one that introduced them together) can also be the fixer of the relationship.
Hooking up people has too much issues, so I have decided to stay clear.
My male friends are free to toast my female friends. E nor concern me, na their own toro(cup of tea) but they shouldn't expect me to influence the toasting process.
WAG readers, am I the only one who has this kind of reasoning or am I just a wicked friend like my guy said?
INFO OF THE DAY : Woman's Reaction To A Man's Approach
When a man first approaches a woman, she will base 55% of her initial impression of him on his appearance and body language, 38% on his style of speaking, and 7% on what he actually says.
So guys you see, why its good to do most of the talking yourself, it speeds up the toasting process.
Stay Sharp,
Warri Girl.
Info source: m.randomhistory.com
15 comments:
A guy dat can't toast a girl himself buh waits 4 his female frnd to it 4 him is a weakling,n I dnt also fink u r wicked o, na tru tlk u tlk,mk dem wait c d girl b4 dem start toast so u dnt get to b in d middle of their mata.
WAG,U R WICKED!!!!
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Kidn o
Thank you for supporting me that am not wicked :), I don't want to be involved in their matter.
Just saving my head from aching, lol.
WAG I don tell u b4 in my case when a guy see a GF picture as my dp and says "hook me up" I use either of this lines "ah no she is engage oh and her wedding is in feb" OR " hmmm my friend is a big chick oh ah range rover must be involve" trust me the guy must run
You nor know some guys, they like to disturb die. After you tell them about the range rover dey go first do " hmmmm....ok". You now go feel say dey don fashi the matter, before you know they go say," ok still send the pin like that". Hahahahahaha
I think u need to read the post again. Asking for hookup does not in anyway makes the asker a weak. The word 'wicked' as used by WAG's friend really don't mean wicked as in the real context but as in a playing or flirting context. I hope I am near correct?
Ighxo
WAG "Hook Me Up"ASAP.....If she ask of my biography,tell her "bio...bio..biology"
This is very true sha. Hooks ups become really burdensome when shit hits the fan! You're not wicked jor! No mind them.
Oyo for you. Nor go find babe toast o, dey wait for Me, WAG. You go grow white bear-bear, lol.
@ WAG, are you really terming this act as a 'disturb'? Would you be doing ur single female friends any good if you refuse to hook them up to ur male single friends who show interest in them? Think am... Afterall, a lot of single girls have prayer points of 'a must to get married' as a new year resolution. Or can you openly dissagree that some of ur female friends don't raise eye brows on ur dp when you put up some of ur handsome male foxs? Or can you openly dissagree that some of those female frnd on ur dp are manless and re crazily searching? I wait ur response...
Well, I see it differently. Apart from the point you made already made on ur post, I have the following observations on female frnds who reject hooking their male friends to other female friends on interest:
1. She has an interest in you and won't want to spoil her chances by introducing you to her friend. "Girls wanna have it all" lolllx... Even when they have a man and they seem to have an interest in you, they still display that indirect territoriality.
2. She is politely telling you 'ur level no reach' this my friend ooo. Or kind of... 'This my friend na runs babe o' and her demands would be outrageous...lollxxx
3. Her friend might just be photogenic and ugly on site....lolx. She no one fall her hand.
4. Her friend is either married or in a serious relationship and she jst don't wanna tell you off because she enjoys the way you keep disturbing her about hook up with her friend. That gives ladies a kind of cool and tech feelings....lollx. 'Like they have a pooshy clique' too...lollx.
Ighxo
First of all, I'm not interested in keeping my male friends to myself. Like I said, they are free to toast my female friends when they meet, I'm not just ready to be a middle man.
As for no.2&3, those aren't reasons to me.
Then for no.4, even when I tell some guys that the girl is in a relationship, they still say "e nor mean, hook me up". So with this I have made my friends know my stand of no hooking up.
Why d issues and quarrelling because WAG refuse to hook pple up? Its just d way she see's & undastand tins, i ve known WAG 4 many years n daz hw she behaves to if she turn u down cos of hook up nur use do case. As 4 saying she's wicked its just lack of undastanding on both side cos she dont ve a better way to discharge u,so she tries to be blunt she nur dey do hook up cos normally wen everything is rosy she go lost but wen breakup tyme reach she fone nur go rest. Guys i know dis is strange but try and meet gurls yourself,fyne i knw she might be a link to ur true and future wife but if na God want em befor u ask 4 hook up she go deliver 4 u, hope i never create enemies? Happy new year cos am back. Xoxo
@igho sorry if may be sounding rash but d truth is dat we re guys and lemme ask a very sincere question ' wat is ur 1st impression wen u see a pretty gurl and wants a hook up'? My bro ur 1st and last point i can take but d 2nd and 3rd well maybe its ur observation or reasoning cos i believe every man has a right to his own belief. What is urs either 4 pleasure or seriousness 1 tin i knw 4 sure comes easily u dont stress ursef, most of our hook up we ask 4 is just 4 d fun of d moment only 5% take it to a higher level dat may still end up broken. Well just think bout it sha but lik i said earlier every man has a right to his own belief and undastanding.xoxo
Dafe thank you. You just help me explain the thing wella.
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