Its Valentine, a day of love but I have been seeing some hateful or beefing status such as;
'Abeg make person hear word! After all, the val na still straf guy and girl go do'.
'If your boyfriend treats you special on a normal day no need for the valentine fuse'.
'There are 365 days in the calender, why the big deal of love over just one day'.
'Don't be carried away with the drama of Feb 14 because True Love isn't once in a year'.
'Val is for kids'.
'Valentine ko valentine ni, abeg make i hear word'.
Peeps, what's up with the beef? Na who nor get money na go say beer bitter.
I believe most of the people that are writing all this negative val statuses are the val-less ones or those who desperately need a val. That's their own way of consoling themselves.
Yesterday, I followed an Uncle of mine who went val shopping for his wife of over 15years and it was so lovely watching him take his time to get the perfect gift.
Please leave the love birds and let them enjoy their day. Stop the beef.
If you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend to celebrate with, there is nothing wrong with that. You can celebrate it with you family and friends.
Don't be beefing people or wishing you had a Val. Take it like a normal day of fun. You can give yourself a treat, hang out with friends and have fun(that's what I'm gonna do).
INFO OF THE DAY: Quirkyalone and SAD Day
Started by a group of feminists, "Quirkyalone Day" is celebrated on February 14 as an alternative to Valentine's Day. It is geared toward people who "resist the tyranny of coupledom."
Another alternate Valentine's Day celebration is SAD (Single Awareness Day), which reminds people that they don't need to be in a relationship to celebrate life.
Quirkyalone Day ke! Abeg e, deep down in every individual, there is a wish to love and be loved.
Stay Sharp,
Warri Girl.
13 comments:
Funny...hapi val all.
Ighxo
I tire for the beefers o WAG,make them go huge high tension wire with their rotten ideas nd beef towards people wen dey celeb d vals day,1love,hapi vals day to u WAG,love you much.winking
I like ur blog dis mornn. Makes plenty sense most importantly the fact that u touched both sides of d coin. Keep d flag flying joor.
Happy val to you also.
Lol @hug high tension wire. Thanks for the love darling.
Thank you and happy val.
It is written love ur neighbour as u love ursef, doz beefers its not deir fault is because dey dont ve luv 4 demselves daz y dey see nufin special in dis day. No need 4 dem to huge high tension wire wat we'll do is just to snap enof luv sites and luv bird den send to dem. Afta dat who lik make he / she go die afta all d person wan die befor u be just catalyst. Its lovers day ve fun to d brim lik it will neva come again. Xoxo
Area! No mind all of dem jare. U r very correct,deep down dey r really looking for love o! Its just like telling a lady who is way past marriage age to sit up and she go tell u say dem nor dey give gold to marry first.meanwile inside her heart she dey pray and wish to marry
(I have a friend like dat who personally confided in me). My advise to her was stop faking it, cos wen dat one guy comes and sees how strong u claim to be, him go waka go find person wey need am.or person wey no get one naira go dey form big boy/girl, meanwile inside na garri him dey drink. How person go help like dat. Enough said,stop d beef pple and enjoy d day
I honestly don't get the whole hullabaloo over vals it has been commercialized just like Christmas and all those other holidays manufacturers and advertisers are very clever and take advantage of this day to hoodwink gullible shoppers to spend more on a product than it costs. My kenyan padi a country that grows and exports roses to Europe tells me that roses that usually cost 20pence are now 1 pound on vals like seriously? And then tomorrow your husband/wife goes back to cheating on you, hitting on you or whatever problem it is that you guys had before vals. My point is if you truly love someone show them love all year round not just on vals to show face or keep up with the jones. My sis and her hubby do not observe vals he brings her flowers all the time, forever buying her gifts, the woman works yet she still gets an allowance from him, takes her on exotic trips loves her like crazy and to them vals is just another normal day in their lives no special dinner plans or anything like that. They only observe birthdays, their anniversary and religious holidays and are fine with that.
That's it, the beefers lack love.
Hmmmm....you friend should stop the pretense not like I'm saying she should be desperate but she shouldn't act as if love doesn't matter.
HAPPY VAL WAG. STILL LOVE YOU
Ok,your lover should treat u special everyday and there is no problem if he decides to treat u extra special on Vals's day,Annivesary day or your birthday... Nothing wrong with that.. And for ur Sis,dats good.. There is actually no perfect template for a marriage and relationship and there is also nothing wrong if her husband dat gives her probably a bunch of rose on everyday decides to give her two on Val's day.#Justsaying...atleast there is nothing wrong in celebrating,birthdays,Anivesary or even Christmas sef.. So u can view Val's day as birthday...lol #justsaying
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