RzxpwR61w18mAw4dwL9HngFa3TQ Life Of A Warri Girl: Friends Before Boyfriends

Monday, 15 October 2012

Friends Before Boyfriends

Few years ago, I had an issue with one of my close friend. It was a serious one because she didn't talk to me for months.

What happened was that, she missed an important occasion of mine and I got to find out that the reason she didn't attend was because her boyfriend said she shouldn't come.

I know yes that when someone has a boyfriend, you always want to be with him and spend most time with him than your friends. But it doesn't mean you should totally abandon your friends if they need you once in awhile.

So I called my friend and told her I was mad at her and said "Know this, there were friends before boyfriends". What I meant is our friendship has being in existence before the guy. So I don't think you should totally abandon me.

Omo my friend vex die ooo, she said I was insulting her boyfriend. Me, I surprise how my statement take turn to boyfriend insult *eyes rolling*.

She didn't talk to me for months(in-short the distance is still there, I guess she still angry on code). Most girls are fond of this, forgetting their friends when there is a new guy but know this, if anything should happen whose shoulders would you cry on.

Another of my friend exhibited this same character and the guy eventually broke up with my her.
That's when she knew that indeed they were friends before boyfriends.

And what are friends for it not for inconveniences so I was there to offer my shoulders,lol.

Sometimes I guess people get annoyed by my actions and I don't like anyone being mad at me. So am sorry if I have pissed you off.

INFO OF THE DAY : Anger Management, Counting to 10 and Beyond.
When angry, count to 10 before you speak. If very angry, a hundred.
"The familiar technique of counting to 10 not only provides the time needed for delay but also offers a distraction from anger-arousing event".
"While busy counting, we are not mentally adding fuel to the fire of anger by mulling over whatever happened", say Dan Johnston, PhD, Mercer University School of Medicine in Macon, Ga.

 Oya if your boyfriend break your heart count to one million and you would be fine.

Stay Sharp,
Warri Girl.

Info source: webmd.com










16 comments:

Unknown said...

Ok na, I m still vexing 4 u oh. #not talking# nice piece gal, I realize dat as we grow older we tend to be wiser on ur we treat our friends VS Boyfriends, cos friends will always be there for u, always treat dem right, .....warri gal wen u dey come see me #frowns# #lol

osahon said...

True talk,wen u meet a guy,its d way u present ur friends bfr him dt determines hw he wll address issues dt concerns dem.if u tell me say ur friend get 2 boyfriend,anytym u tell me say u dey go meet am I go feel say she wan gv u man.so I go mk sure say u dnt go c her too often.na so e b.

Anonymous said...

Its kinda unfortunate that boyfriends somehow gets into the heart deeper within few weeks of friendship. Maybe the intimacy causes that....
Nice write up anyway.

Ighxo

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha

Unknown said...

The good thing abt friendship is dat Friends fight,quarrel,insult demselves, n settles and they become stronger than ever....... Dats why I still can't do without my Rabbits #wink#

gloria said...

Ahh! My neighbour for scul then told me to my face that she wants my bf. Went as far as saying she was supposed to date him cos she met him a day b4 me. Long story sha, but till 2mro we are not talking

Unknown said...

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Warri Girl said...

My darling rabbit, don't be angry please. I go soon come see you.

Olisaemeka__ said...

On point @igho . .lol
tho i knw some guys dat've done d same but its not dis extreme . .d term *****whiped

The Mayor said...

That's one thing real guys will never do, even some married men will rather spend friday night with the boys than be at home with the wife

Dr. Gee said...

Na true sha! I feel you. Some people just forget you when they are in a relationship and when the thing falls apart they run back to you as if no oh, you guys had frozen then friendship in time. Mschew

Dafe said...

What a post, frnds b4 bf's,well it all depends on understanding in a relationship befor u know who comes 1st, as 4 me i believe everybody deserves respect but it depends on wat u tell ur spouse bout ur frnd dat determines hw dey react wen u bring up such frnd's issue,if u ve an understanding spouse believe me even wen its not comfortable they will allow u make ur friends happy den make u understand some things later. mind u not all adults re matured. xoxo

SHANTELSLEEK DESIGNS said...

Just luv my boy friend 2 my gels I v fake friends any fin my man say goes

Man2Man said...

Luv still dey catch that ur friend.....lol. I wont blame her though, its always like that when someone is in love. you tend to forget everything, even your friends.....it takes alot of maturity to know that ur friends are always ur friends no matter what.

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